What is keeping you from getting back together with your ex? Surely there are obstacles and chances are, one of them is included in the list you can find in the next paragraphs.
1. Inability to overcome obstacles.
So many times we always allow an obstacle to get in the way of reconciliation. It’s just too easy to say “oh well, I tried.” “I know because I’ve done it!”
But at the end of the day, there is a solution to every obstacle. That’s right, each and everyone of them.
Despite what the experts would like you to believe, there are no solutions that work perfect all of the time, simply because we all possess free will to do as we please. If anyone tells you otherwise, run (don’t walk) in the other direction!
Having said these things, there are things we can do to overcome all obstacles. For every situation, there is always an available solution.
2. Fear.
Fear of being hurt… Fear of rejection… Fear of putting yourself on the line… Fear of not knowing what COULD happen next! And most of all…Fear of what your ex will say!
These fears are enough hindrance to your inaction.
But the fact remains, if you don’t “put yourself out there” sometimes, you won’t get anywhere. No risk, no reward.
Don’t be afraid. For as long as you avoid the same mistakes, only good things can happen!
3. Pride.
Pride is the obstacle that runs very close to fear in terms of effect for couples who are unable to get back together. Let’s face it, at the end of a relationship, things are said and done which are often regrettable.
When break ups happen, our egos are damaged, our feelings are hurt. So, in order to recover and cope with the breakup, we always do cling to our pride. And add to that our basic human desire to be right. We desperately want to believe that we are right, and our ex is in the wrong.
This is our way of telling ourselves that we are alright. But there is nothing wrong with this. We are ok and it’s good that we think well of ourselves during tough times like this.
But often our pride prevents us from moving into the right direction with our ex’s. It prevents us from saying how we REALLY feel. Or it prevents us from really tackling the core reason why you broke up in the first place.
Honestly, we would be best served by humbling ourselves and opening our minds to our special someone. If your ex is indeed your true love, you should be able to demonstrate humility. Let go of your pride and be completely open and honest.
When you can overcome your pride, chances are you can overlook past mistakes and forgive your ex. Or maybe it will give you the strength to ask for forgiveness yourself if it is needed. Or it will help you to tackle the real issues that are keeping you apart.
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