How To Get My Ex back If He Or She Wants More Space

What can you do if your boyfriend or girfriend suddenly broke up with you saying he or she wanted more space? But you still love him or her very much and want to get your ex back...what can be the reasons?

An average number of people have experienced a memorable relationship in their life that seems so perfect. The happy moments being together seems a never ending experience for both the partners. When suddenly, the other partner is saying he/she needs some space and initiates a break up. There are a number of different reasons for why a boyfriend or girlfriend may suddenly need space and these includes family problems, insecurities, or a fear of commitment just to name a few.

Here are some tips for answering the age old "how to get my ex back" question if your ex needs more space.

• You are not going to want to lose your pride, or to allow him/her to get the best of you although clearly you are still in love with him/her. It may be ideal to play a little bit hard to get at first, in order to show him /her that yes, it was his/her loss and not your own.



• If you are feeling like your ex still has feelings for you, then it may be ideal for you to strike up a conversation with him/her. Keep communication to a minimum in order to keep the level of drama to a minimum. Short text messages, brief phone calls and online conversations in passing are all a great way to remind him/her how much he/she wants to be a part of your life without overwhelming him/her with your presence when he/she may actually want and need space.



• Eventually he/she will begin to show significant interest in you again if all goes well, and this will give you the chance to truly begin to reminisce with him/her. Keep in mind that you should focus primarily on all of the good memories associated with your relationship in the past. While rekindling a relationship with your ex, you are going to want to stay away from the bad experiences and negative experiences in case he/she conjure bad feelings and undo your hard work.



• If your ex is not responding to your slow and subtle advances, you need to take it for what it is. Either he/she just really is not interested in you right now, or he/she really does just need space and you should give it to him/her. But if on the other hand he/she seems to be interested in you more than before, or is slowly warming up to you again, then you should continue gradually advancing on him/she to rekindle the relationship.



• If your ex is giving you the right signals, you can try to open your heart up to him/her. Let him/her know how you feel, but avoid looking desperate or needy in the process. If he/she is showing you that he/she is thinking about rekindling things, then it would be healthy to be open with him/her. But if his signals are pointing in the other direction, it may be wiser to step back and let things happen more naturally.

These are only some of the beginning steps in order to win your ex back in your arms again. And if you need more informations on how to tackle this kind of relationship problems, feel free to visit www.thenewmagicofmakingup.info to read articles on relationships. There is also a FREE VIDEO available in this link about "How To Make The Opening Move To Win Back An Ex" The title is self-explanatory. I hope this helps.